After Years of Abusive E-mails, the Creator of Linux Steps Aside (The New Yorker)

Clearly, when it's directed towards someone in an angered or negative way, it's very different from “fuck, I'm hungry, let's go have some food” at some college campus. If people at the colleges you frequent go say things like “Mauro, SHUT THE FUCK UP!” to each other, I'd suggest you go to less abusive colleges. And Hollywood movies are not role models for how people should behave against each other in real life (and thankfully, people generally do not behave as in Hollywood movies).