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What's the point anyway?

What's the point anyway?

Posted Dec 2, 2010 3:25 UTC (Thu) by mjg59 (subscriber, #23239)
In reply to: What's the point anyway? by bojan
Parent article: The dark side of open source conferences

Having been to pretty much every significant Linux conference:

The honest answer is that drinking is a significant part of certain socialising, and part of that is down to the community generally being relatively young, spending much of their life working in stressful environments and having the opportunity to blow off some steam with their peers. However, that's not the major aspect of it. The vast majority of well-organised social events function as, well, social events. There may be alcohol available. Some people may drink more of it than is strictly necessary or appropriate. But even if you don't drink (and I haven't at various points in my life), there's the opportunity to spend time with interesting people and have fascinating conversations with them. Not wanting to drink isn't a social stigma, and I'd hope that any encouragement to engage in any kind of drinking culture when you're unwilling to would be deemed as inappropriate as any of the acts in the parent article.


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What's the point anyway?

Posted Dec 2, 2010 10:37 UTC (Thu) by NAR (subscriber, #1313) [Link] (4 responses)

Not wanting to drink isn't a social stigma

Really? I haven't noticed that here...

What's the point anyway?

Posted Dec 2, 2010 12:36 UTC (Thu) by willy (subscriber, #9762) [Link] (2 responses)

About eighteen months ago, I had pancreatitis, and as a result my alcohol consumption has been severely curtailed. I don't feel any less included in the social aspect of conferences as a result. If it's a party in someone's room, I'll bring a six-pack of soft drinks. If it's at a bar, I'll drink coke or iced tea while everybody else drinks beer.

What's the point anyway?

Posted Dec 2, 2010 13:19 UTC (Thu) by NAR (subscriber, #1313) [Link] (1 responses)

So, following your logic, if one female is not assaulted at a conference, the whole problem doesn't exist?

What's the point anyway?

Posted Dec 2, 2010 13:23 UTC (Thu) by willy (subscriber, #9762) [Link]

Perhaps you're being socially ostracised for reasons other than being a non-drinker.

What's the point anyway?

Posted Dec 2, 2010 15:24 UTC (Thu) by Cyberax (✭ supporter ✭, #52523) [Link]

I'm a total non-drinker, yet I don't find myself uncomfortable at social events with some alcohol (even conference in Bavaria. During the Octoberfest).


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