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Sick indeed

Sick indeed

Posted Oct 14, 2014 9:26 UTC (Tue) by anselm (subscriber, #2796)
In reply to: Sick indeed by man_ls
Parent article: On the sickness of our community

It is the leaders of a community who very often set the tone for the rest. If a community leader comes across as an arrogant asshole, this tells other people in the community that (a) it is OK to be an arrogant asshole in that community and (b) this is what the leader does so if you want to be more like him or her then try to emulate that. Conversely, if the leaders emphatically aren't arrogant assholes then that gives the community the required leverage to tell any other arrogant assholes to cut it out.

The problem is that, especially in free-software projects, if the project leaders foster a culture of arrogant assholery it is very difficult for others in the community to tell them to tone it down, since (a) they're usually the ones who first came up with the project and do most of the work, and (b) since they're arrogant assholes they generally don't like to be told how to behave, especially by incompetent wimps who are too stupid to see how the leaders walk on water, and ought to get out of the kitchen if they can't stand the heat. Often the community contains a crowd of sub-assholes who, simply to show off their own prowess at being arrogant assholes, will gang up on and incinerate anyone putting forward the concept that perhaps it might be bad to be an arrogant asshole. This drives away the more reasonable people and thus makes the problem self-reinforcing.


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Sick indeed

Posted Oct 14, 2014 10:09 UTC (Tue) by man_ls (guest, #15091) [Link]

Yes, I suppose that it could be said as simply as "leaders lead", but your analysis is much more interesting.

Also, people with status in a community tend to like it that way. In turn this means that they don't see any glaring problems (at least glaring to the rest of the world), even people who emphatically are _not_ assholes, such as our esteemed editor. They tend to rationalize abuse, sometimes as in this case as being something uncommon and due to extraordinary circumstances. But again, this behavior should _not_ be acceptable, even once a month.


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