On the sickness of our community

Funny how you start your postings by claiming that you're not blaming the victim and then go on blaming the victim all the rest of your posts.

By blaming the victim, you are not only defending the perpetrators, you are supporting their cause and their personal attacks. You are giving them credibility and social support.

You become part of the problem. Do you really want that? Do you wish to be part of a conglomerate of sociopathic individuals? If you really do, then please continue. But I'm convinced that most people really don't and just don't realize what they're doing. I hope that's true for you, too.