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On the sickness of our community

On the sickness of our community

Posted Oct 9, 2014 12:22 UTC (Thu) by fb (guest, #53265)
In reply to: On the sickness of our community by ras
Parent article: On the sickness of our community

> Our editor says he handles this by ignoring it. You imply that can't be true given Kathy's story, where ignoring it failed. But my guess is Kathy's world is the way it is because deep down she is incapable of ignoring it.

Highlighted quote "_incapable_ of ignoring it".

I think there is a huge difference between _incapable_ and _unwilling_.

I don't think the (relative) low rate of women in tech (or FOSS) is about their incapability of ignoring abuse as much as it is about their unwillingness to put up with it.

This industry is IMO problematic because folks in tech (or FOSS) have not yet -as a whole- agreed that someone should be able work in the industry without having to suffer systematic threats and abuse. Really. How many industries are there where folks still debate whether systematic abuse is something that should be allowed to happen?

(seriously, even here on LWN -a pretty civil site-, check the comments every time there is an article about preventing harassment on software conferences).

PS: I do see a big difference between (i) " abuse, federal lawsuits" or threats of lying about you and (ii) threats of rape and dismemberment.


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On the sickness of our community

Posted Oct 20, 2014 15:38 UTC (Mon) by nye (subscriber, #51576) [Link] (5 responses)

>seriously, even here on LWN -a pretty civil site-

In all seriousness, I have to say that this statement is really only true if we add the qualifier "for a FOSS community site".

If you mostly interact with communities within the FOSS ecosystem, then LWN could indeed be considered pretty civil. Compared to other, more general communities, LWN is shockingly bad. *Shockingly*.

The standard of discourse here is appalling; it's impossible for me to go more than a couple of days of reading LWN comments without reading such disgusting personal attacks and outright lunacy that I have a hard time not responding in kind - and sometimes fail to stop myself, though I think I've been getting better at this. Given the way these things tend to spiral here, It's pretty clear I'm not the only one.

I genuinely credit the LWN community with a major dip in my (sadly precarious) mental health a few years ago. Unfortunately, I seem to lack the self-control required to read the articles without reading the comments.

Nobody ever really wants to talk about this, and in most cases I suspect it's because they genuinely don't see it. I mean, if you spend your days reading debian-devel or - god forbid - debian-user, LWN probably seems like a wondrous haven in comparison; if you interact with a variety of online communities that aren't FOSS-associated in any way, it's a very different picture. The problem is so endemic in FOSS circles that you really need to spend a fair bit of time outside to notice just how bad things are here.

On the sickness of our community

Posted Oct 20, 2014 19:09 UTC (Mon) by speedster1 (guest, #8143) [Link] (2 responses)

> Compared to other, more general communities, LWN is shockingly bad. *Shockingly*.

Mind if I ask for specifics on what sorts of online communities you're thinking of when you say this?

LWN is one of my very favorite sites, and I don't have experience with many other communities, but upon reflection I do admit there have been more insults thrown around here (though I only remember one aimed at me personally) than my other favorite sites, a couple of adventure game forums and GamingOnLinux. I suspect the only reason GamingOnLinux is more civil is that the moderator delete hammer is applied quickly whenever somebody starts resorting to insults and personal attacks.

On the sickness of our community

Posted Oct 21, 2014 0:44 UTC (Tue) by deater (subscriber, #11746) [Link]

> > Compared to other, more general communities, LWN is shockingly bad.
> > *Shockingly*.

> Mind if I ask for specifics on what sorts of online communities you're
> thinking of when you say this?

I too wonder a bit about what people are using as a basis of comparison.

I think many of the old timers around here, when making comparisons, are possibly going the whole way back to USENET and BBSes.

Back then the idea of finding another place, where you could discuss technical things with like minded people in a semi-anonymous way, was a great thing. It is true you had to put up with trolls, flame wars, and the endless Amiga/OS2 fanatics, but that was what killfiles were for.

When endless September arrived and the real world started leaking in things just never quite recovered.

It is true that with the corporate takeover of Linux and the ensuing attitude enforcement things will be much nicer for outsiders.

It's just once we get a world where Linus is always cheerful, Al Viro doesn't flame, and David Miller removes all strong language comments from the Sparc-Linux sources, I feel something will be lost. Maybe it is the destiny of everything to leave its wild-west roots. I always used Linux because it was fun; I feel like the push for universal blandness is just making things boring and I've found myself losing interest in Linux development, something I hadn't really thought was possible.

On the sickness of our community

Posted Oct 21, 2014 13:39 UTC (Tue) by nye (subscriber, #51576) [Link]

>> Compared to other, more general communities, LWN is shockingly bad. *Shockingly*.
>Mind if I ask for specifics on what sorts of online communities you're thinking of when you say this?

I'm mostly thinking of gaming communities - the ones I interact with (like Civilization) are somewhat skewed more in favour of adult participants versus the more console-oriented areas that have to deal with things like this gamergate nonsense.

Also, other hobbyist communities, principally related to electronics, such as Arduino/wearables/assorted open hardware initiatives, plus recently some more traditional analogue electronics.

One thing most of these have in common is *some* degree of moderation, which is commonly hated by the ultra-libertarian elements of the FOSS community (where this ideology is unusually prevalent), but which appears to be a practical necessity in growing a community past a certain size when none of the participants can ever see each other's faces (seeing each other's faces acts like a natural form of moderation IRL, especially in combination with the impermanence of the spoken word).

There doesn't usually need to be *much* moderation though: the maker community seems to be generally very good, even with very little visible moderation. The gaming communities I suspect could devolve more easily, but in practice even very little light moderation is generally enough so long as it is consistent and has well-defined rules.

Moderation is a lot easier to get right if it's baked in to the system from the start, because then you're not trying to get people to *change*, but to behave in a certain way in the first place. It also only works when it is transparent (eg there is an explicit 'post removed/edited by ...') and the moderators are actually good at it - don't act emotionally, are specific about why they are taking some action, and are polite. The latter is extremely important, and I'm not just talking about using polite *words*, which many people seem to feel is enough, but being *genuinely* polite: just because you insulted somebody without using the word 'fucking', it is no less of an insult. Somebody whose post is being moderated should never be made to feel like they are being victimised because it's counter-productive.

On the sickness of our community

Posted Oct 21, 2014 0:50 UTC (Tue) by tialaramex (subscriber, #21167) [Link] (1 responses)

I don't think I can agree with this.

There are other sites I pay attention to which don't constitute "FOSS community sites" and yet are well into the "hive of scum and villainy" category

• 4chan (particularly /b/ but really most channels that have anyone actually writing rather than just dumping images, even /ck/ has plenty of racism and just completely out of place arguments and name calling)

• Reddit (presumably there are sub-reddits that are full of calm polite people and I just don't read any of those)

• Moo Bunny (a freeform pseudonymous forum which has at least two separate individuals posting endless obscenity in an apparent attempt to render it useless)

• Youtube comments for almost anything or anyone popular

• Something Awful (at least some parts of it)

And there are also a whole bunch of sites that, if they aren't clearly _worse_ than LWN are certainly not significantly _better_ such as

• RationalWiki's "saloon bar" forum

• OS News

• The major Amiga web forums (Amigaworld. Amiga.org, etc.) because there's nothing so bitterly fought over as the last crumbs of the cake

• Slashdot (if you still read it you probably have threshold set to +2 and still ignore most of what's written, but try -1 because that's a fairer comparison to unfiltered LWN.net)

• The official (moderated) forums for the MMO World of Warcraft.

On the sickness of our community

Posted Oct 28, 2014 23:40 UTC (Tue) by njs (subscriber, #40338) [Link]

If your goal is just to be "better than 4chan" (or even "better than RationalWiki") then your goal is really not ambitious enough...


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