For a counter example of how this "un-scalable" development model can actually work just fine--regardless of OS--look no further than the DRI2 and KMS changes coordinated across X.org, other user space and the Linux kernel, all at the same time with many hands involved in the work and with very little user-visible disruption.
Your (primary) claim just doesn't square with the reality, anywhere.
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