Active discrimination, or feeling oppressed?
Active discrimination, or feeling oppressed?
Posted Jul 28, 2009 7:43 UTC (Tue) by njs (subscriber, #40338)In reply to: Active discrimination, or feeling oppressed? by Wol
Parent article: OSCON keynote: Standing out in the crowd
I've read a fair number of these discussions, but I've never seen any female developers complaining that they were just treated *too much* like men. (Except perhaps when it was assumed that they were cool with misogynistic jokes, hetero-male-oriented porn, etc.) The O'Reilly thread about this has discussion of comments like "who'd you sleep with to get that patch accepted?" and how much more bearable things are if adopt a non-female pseudonym.
Besides which, your argument is based on the assumption that the proper treatment woman would receive in a perfect world is some a special feminine treatment, that is different from the treatment which men receive. While I'm sure you weren't thinking of it quite that way when you wrote it, do you see how that comes across as offensive?
(BTW, "the female 20%" is actually the female 1.5%, according to the original post's citation, and I've never seen an estimate higher than 3%. The imbalance is much, much worse than you see to realize.)
> Thing is, UNLESS the majority are careful about it (which most aren't), minorities will almost always feel oppressed even if the majority isn't oppressive.
This boils down to "woman feel unwelcome because they're the minority, and they remain in the minority because they feel unwelcome". But if that were true, then we would never see women entering traditionally male-dominated fields, and that's nonsense. Even closely related fields, like academic computer science and professional software development, now have *vastly* higher female participation than FOSS.
> We have that in Britain, where the majority of the Moslem community are regularly offended by the Politically Correct saying "we don't want to offend the Muslims"
And have you ever asked one of these people why they found it offensive, and thought about their answer until it made sense? Have you ever read one of these discussions through (say, the talk linked to in the parent article plus its comments) and then thought them through? It's easy and comforting to rattle off a post that explains away the problem and lets you stop thinking about it, but I'd suggest resisting the temptation -- it's part of the problem. This kind of thing isn't easy to understand or discuss, but it's worth the effort.
