COW and volume management?

Engineering isn't a "good vibes only" club. We have to be able to talk about and understand past mistakes if we want to improve and do better, and sometimes the "what not to do" are really important lessons.

So I can and do talk about that stuff when it's relevant, and no doubt will again.

If you want to avoid the tensions and the drama, the way for that to happen is for everyone to be taking responsibility for their work and responding to the challenges that are arising, because we all depend on each other.