> By this point the language on that page has got so diluted as to seem meaningless. Cis-privilege? Trans-phobia? Oh dear. I'm pretty sure this is "phobia" in same sense that "racism" is about race these days.
That is an excellent bit of deduction you have performed, determining what people who have lived through stuff mean on a subject that you admit you have no knowledge of whatsoever.
Seriously, even if you don't have any trans friends who are willing to explain this stuff (like they have to do every day), there is this thing called the internet. If you want to learn what it's like to be trans, you can find that out really easily.
I do admit that your approach (make decision, *then* acquire facts) is quicker, though.
> What is the ultimate aim for the people who wish to dilute the concept of gender? Because I can't make heads or tails out of this.
To live their lives, I think. (Note: their lives are different from your life.)