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Desiring respectful treatment isn't about weak vs. strong...Desiring respectful treatment isn't about weak vs. strong...Posted Sep 4, 2009 6:49 UTC (Fri) by Arker (guest, #14205)In reply to: Desiring respectful treatment isn't about weak vs. strong... by miss-electra Parent article: FSF to host a mini-summit on Women in Free Software
Why should I have to fight for respect and recognition that is accorded to others simply by their BEING PRESENT? Clearly you shouldnt. However you *might* be overestimating the respect others are getting. I wasnt there and I dont know, but I have seen that happen for sure - in many groups (not specific to free software but online conversation in general) there is a hazing process that may be informal and undocumented but is very real. I have seen females in such situation get very offended and storm out, appearing to believe they were singled out for disrespect when in fact each and every guy in the room had gone through the same crap earlier. Now I'm not justifying it and I am NOT saying that was what happened with you - I am just saying it's a possibility. I do know from experience that females *are* routinely singled out for special treatment on the internet, for multiple reasons many of which have been mentioned, it's not right or good but it's a fact. This quite naturally and predictably results in females being generally more likely to take offense based on mistakes as well, or to perceive disrespect even when it is not intended. This is not intended as a criticism at all - it's natural and understandable and predictable, and I think ultimately only improvement in communication can address it.
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