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It's different basic expectationsIt's different basic expectationsPosted Sep 26, 2007 7:05 UTC (Wed) by khim (subscriber, #9252)In reply to: My Fabulous Geek Career (O'ReillyNet) by proski Parent article: My Fabulous Geek Career (O'ReillyNet)
Women have natural tendency to avoid open conflicts, Japanese taught this way, but in all cases the end problem is the same: fear of loss of the face is great. So they tend to use personal e-mail to avoid public humiliation. What they tend not to understand is that geeks absolutely hate private conversations: they are unaccessible to Google, they can not be pointed out later, etc. Actually it was explained quite succulently in well-known How To Ask Questions The Smart Way article. And as you can this style is not just creation of misfits "because they fell this way" - it actually makes sense if you'll think about it! Yes, sometimes responses are too rude, but mostly they are justified if you value time more then politeness...
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It's different basic expectations Posted Sep 26, 2007 9:40 UTC (Wed) by flewellyn (subscriber, #5047) [Link] Women have a natural tendency to avoid conflicts? Are you certain that they, like the Japanese,were not just socialized that way? Careful about ascribing to innate nature that which is more easily explained by culture.
Yup. It's pretty simple... Posted Sep 26, 2007 13:48 UTC (Wed) by khim (subscriber, #9252) [Link] It's biology. Species where females did a lot of noise (and thus were killed) are extinct, species where males did a lot of noise (and thus were killed) survived (males are not essential for childraising). And yes, this basic fact of life is true even today: man can pull all-nighter debugging something, woman must go home on time for the children's sake. So yes, males in general are more aggressive and rude. And they can "afford" risky situations. Thus while free software fights for survival - we'll see many more males there then females, when it'll become mainstream - we'll see more and more women there. You'll find significantly more males in startups, then in big companies, too. Actually the number of women among free software enthusiasts shows how far we are from "world domination": we can only then claim that we achieved this status when we'll have the same proportion of women among developers as in proprietary world. I'm just very unsure that the best way there is to change community to make it more "women-friendly"...
Yup. It's pretty simple... Posted Sep 26, 2007 13:58 UTC (Wed) by flewellyn (subscriber, #5047) [Link] I'm not going to get into an evolutionary pyschology debate here on LWN, but given that humanbehavior is so mouldable by what they learn as young children, and given that we know that different cultures can and do create wildly different levels of "noisiness", as you described it, Occam's Razor suggests that reaching for biological explanations of the disparity is unnecessary, when purely cultural explanations are both simpler and more easily tested.
Different cultures ? Posted Sep 26, 2007 14:11 UTC (Wed) by khim (subscriber, #9252) [Link] 1. You asked about "natural tendency". To me "natural tendency" == "tendency determined by biology". What is your definition ? 2. Name one survived culture where women are more aggressive then man. There are myths related to amazons and may be some small tribes, but all major players of such type are either extinct or never existed at all. This can hardly be explained by "what they learn as young children".
Actually it's even worse. Posted Sep 26, 2007 14:21 UTC (Wed) by khim (subscriber, #9252) [Link] Small children are usually taught by women and so taught politeness first. Only later in life guys are starting to become "arrogant jerks". Take the situation in Japan: while Japanese look (from viewpoint of westerner) always uber-polite yet actually they are using different speech patterns and women are not supposed to talk in public at all!
Actually it's even worse. Posted Sep 26, 2007 15:16 UTC (Wed) by flewellyn (subscriber, #5047) [Link] Y'know, it IS even worse; I realized that I forgot to question how you got the idea that women are less assertive or aggressive, in the first place.
Actually it's even worse. Posted Sep 26, 2007 18:30 UTC (Wed) by pizza (subscriber, #46) [Link] "Only later in life" do guys suddenly get tons of testosterone coursing through their system. Given how much it affects them physically, one would imagine it would have an effect on their psyche as well.
Nonsense Posted Sep 26, 2007 12:44 UTC (Wed) by man_ls (subscriber, #15091) [Link] Yes, sometimes responses are too rude, but mostly they are justified if you value time more then politeness...Nonsense. As the linked article says: "The best FOSS people are polite and pleasant. I do not believe that anyone is so invaluable and indispensable that they can be excused from common courtesy".
Nonsense Posted Sep 26, 2007 13:54 UTC (Wed) by peace (guest, #10016) [Link] So "polite and pleasant" is where the bar is set? How the hell is anyone supposed to police that? It is completely subjective. I might be able to understand "not deliberately abusive" but really, I just don't care about this issue of politeness. There is only one thing that matters in FLOSS:
"Show me the code".
If being polite leads to more and better code than it will naturally win out. If being a stubborn abusive jackass leads to more code, than thats what we will see. FLOSS is a universe of personalities. It is not supposed to be a personality contest.
The call for "Politeness" can be just as much a power grab as being rude. And just as pointless.
Kind Regards
Article lies - plain and simple. Posted Sep 26, 2007 13:59 UTC (Wed) by khim (subscriber, #9252) [Link] I've read the article and decided to ignore this stupid passage. Linus is brash and rude - yes, he's honest, always ready to admit his mistakes and he rarely scold someone without reason, but as he himself said "I'm a scheming, conniving bastard who doesn't care for any hurt feelings or lost hours of work, if it just results in what I consider to be a better system". Ulrich Drepper (the guy who maintains GLibC) ? Polite and pleasant ? Don't make me laugh. Take almost any big project - and you'll find quite a few abrasive yet honest people at the top. yes, there are guys who can be "polite and pleasant". Linus is among them. Yet this guise is rarely used among developers - that's more for tech talks, press and interaction with "outsiders"...
The best people Posted Sep 26, 2007 15:55 UTC (Wed) by man_ls (subscriber, #15091) [Link] The "best FOSS people" mentioned in the article are not necessarily the project leaders. And the Linux kernel is probably not a good example of Free software project, it is too peculiar in many respects.To me it is related to professionalism. Good professionals in any field tend to be polite while bad ones are often rude, to customers and among themselves. There is no reason why software development should be different, or attract Asperger types any more often. And yet Free software development has a displeasing share of these antisocial behaviors and even people that defend them. LWN is an excellent example of how developers (and users) can be polite with each other. Discussions here can also be curt and to the point but they are seldom rude. Maybe it is because the comment editor says, "Please try to be polite, respectful, and informative, and to provide a useful subject line", and the editorial style helps set this tone. So it can be done.
The best people Posted Sep 26, 2007 17:54 UTC (Wed) by peace (guest, #10016) [Link] FLOSS is an amature's ( http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amature ) domain and may it never become the domain of the professional because it would be the end of it.
LWN tends to stay away from the sensational unlike some other geek news site that plays to breathless hyperbole and emotion. I bet thats what keeps the discourse at least slightly elevated.
Kind Regards
The best people Posted Sep 26, 2007 21:23 UTC (Wed) by man_ls (subscriber, #15091) [Link] No doubt you mean "amateur". Please do not confuse "amateur" as the opposite of "professional", it is not. In French it literally means "lover", as someone who performs an activity out of love (as opposed to "for profit"). During some time in the late 19th century it became a derogatory term, probably when well-intentioned members of the unoccupied classes out of boredom started performing activities formerly in the realm of the professional. E.g. Sherlock Holmes, the original "amateur sleuth", as a prototypical example.In Free software it is different. Many amateurs keep a very high level of professionalism, enough to embarrass many a paid developer. And (perhaps most importantly) many professionals love their work as much as any amateur. And Free software is, without a doubt, the domain of the professional. And of the amateur. And of anyone who cares to contribute. LWN publishes summaries for every kernel release, the one for 2.6.23 will be freely available quite soon, if you care to look.
The best people Posted Sep 27, 2007 1:46 UTC (Thu) by peace (guest, #10016) [Link] Curious that you would choose to lecturer me on the very information I presented you with in my post.
-peace
The best people Posted Sep 26, 2007 20:43 UTC (Wed) by nix (subscriber, #2304) [Link] Being maximally picky and even more off topic (as a strong Aspergic whosesister is a psychologist specializing in aspies gives me a bit of clue in this area), there certainly *is* a reason why software development attracts Aspergic types more often.
A major characteristic of most, perhaps all Aspergics is fear of change.
But it is perfectly possible to be pleasant to people while being
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