Dress for success? Decide on your goals, then act to reach them, by David
A. Wheeler (Groklaw)
[Posted April 7, 2006 by ris]
David A. Wheeler looks at
dressing for success, on Groklaw. "The fact is, people judge
others by appearance. Pretending this is not true doesn't change the
truth. What's more, you're unlikely to stop people from judging by
appearance; universal genetic engineering on humans would probably be
required."
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Dress for success? Decide on your goals, then act to reach them, by David
A. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 7, 2006 20:41 UTC (Fri) by pheldens (guest, #19366)
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success is subjective.
Dress for success? Decide on your goals, then act to reach them, by David
A. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 7, 2006 21:36 UTC (Fri) by flewellyn (subscriber, #5047)
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Perhaps, but remember Mark Twain's words: "Clothes make the man. Naked people have little or no influence on society."
It's not too much of a stretch to extrapolate that perhaps washing one's clothes every now and then is also a good idea.
Dress for success? Decide on your goals, then act to reach them, by David
A. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 7, 2006 23:09 UTC (Fri) by donbarry (guest, #10485)
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Gandhi, then, by definition had little or no impact on
society.
Willingly accomodating to this type of irrelevant social norm only
strengthens the norm.
Dress for success? Decide on your goals, then act to reach them, by DavidA. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 8, 2006 0:00 UTC (Sat) by sjj (subscriber, #2020)
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Gandhi's clothes were very carefully chosen and part of his message. Which is Wheeler's point.
Dress for success? Decide on your goals, then act to reach them, by DavidA. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 11, 2006 14:19 UTC (Tue) by dwheeler (guest, #1216)
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Bingo. Figure out what your goals are, and then use clothes as a tool.
Dress for success? Decide on your goals, then act to reach them, by David
A. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 7, 2006 22:59 UTC (Fri) by jwb (guest, #15467)
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Sure, but for a person who shows up for a job interview, success would be based on getting the job, and for a person who comes to a sales meeting success means closing the deal. Being clean and well-dressed can advance the chances of success in these situations.
Some of the candidates who have come for job interviews at my company could not be described as well-dressed, clean, or even healthy. These people didn't rate consideration regardless of their skills. The article is just trying to say that appropriate dress changes for the occassion. You can't wear the same filthy black t-shirt you've been wearing for months to meet a new client, at least not if you expect to make a favorable impression.
Decide on your goals, then act to reach them.
Posted Apr 8, 2006 10:04 UTC (Sat) by Seegras (subscriber, #20463)
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If I go to a job-interview, I also want to make sure the company suits me. So I won't wear anything I wouldn't otherwise wear. If they don't like me for not wearing a tie, then the company is the wrong one for me -- I never wear a rope around my neck, that's just for one occasion: The last. When they hang you, that is. However, if necessary I go with a bowtie, but not to a job-interview.
For David Wheeler, looking like the rest of the business-flock is obviously his right choice, for me its not. I dress carefully, but alien. Naval jackets with two buttons of rows, a black spanish jacket with white embroidery, things like that are what I wear. And hats. He mentions that too as "Prince from another Country". And it works nicely.
Decide on your goals, then act to reach them.
Posted Apr 8, 2006 15:46 UTC (Sat) by tjc (subscriber, #137)
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Naval jackets with two buttons of rows, a black spanish jacket with white embroidery, things like that are what I wear.
Aye mate, that'll get you a job as a cockswain, but nothing in IT. Garn!
Decide on your goals, then act to reach them.
Posted Apr 8, 2006 23:26 UTC (Sat) by Arker (guest, #14205)
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Why would you want to work at a job where dressing like a drone was considered a requirement... or even desirable?
Decide on your goals, then act to reach them.
Posted Apr 10, 2006 19:28 UTC (Mon) by tjc (subscriber, #137)
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I don't think that I said anything like that. Perhaps you inferred something that I did not intend, or maybe you responded to the wrong post?
Decide on your goals, then act to reach them.
Posted Apr 10, 2006 13:46 UTC (Mon) by Seegras (subscriber, #20463)
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| Aye mate, that'll get you a job as a cockswain, but nothing in IT. Garn!
Well, it worked for me. I already got me a job. I be the master of security of a 74 gun ISP.
74 guns?
Posted Apr 13, 2006 15:09 UTC (Thu) by dwheeler (guest, #1216)
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You're at an ISP where the security guy controls 74 guns?
That is serious physical security :-).
Dress for success? Decide on your goals, then act to reach them, by DavidA. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 8, 2006 0:45 UTC (Sat) by stock (guest, #5849)
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The classic suit + tie's reputation has already been flushed through the
toilet long time ago.
When i see these CEO's of Death drive up to the local area's factory,
install crisis management, selling out the shop, putting husbands and
wifes of families on the street, and last but not least, before stepping
back into their UK brand saloons, fill their own pockets with a farewell
fee exceeding millions of dollars, well I'd say : people watch your back
for these types wearing suits and ties.
Robert
Dress for success? Decide on your goals, then act to reach them, by DavidA. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 8, 2006 2:24 UTC (Sat) by beoba (guest, #16942)
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Wear a clown suit.
Dress for success? Decide on your goals, then act to reach them, by DavidA. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 8, 2006 17:21 UTC (Sat) by doelle (guest, #13986)
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... and if you are a Philistine, dress like a garden gnome ...
Dress for success? Decide on your goals, then act to reach them, by DavidA. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 9, 2006 9:01 UTC (Sun) by mepr (guest, #4819)
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... and if you are a Philistine, dress like a garden gnome ...
Only if you're prepared to travel
Dress for success? Decide on your goals, then act to reach them, by David
A. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 8, 2006 15:22 UTC (Sat) by richo123 (guest, #24309)
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Well if there are any fastidious geeks out there listen to these views of an employer (me):
I am a professor and hire computer support staff for scientific computing in a university (NYU).
If a computer geek turned up at my interview in an expensive suit and tie I would be automatically highly suspicious.
I am interested in technical and interpersonal skills not clothes and other "powerpoint" items.
Dress for success? Decide on your goals, then act to reach them, by David
A. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 8, 2006 23:24 UTC (Sat) by laidlaws (guest, #26237)
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In answer to the argument thaat clothes do not make the man, you can change the system only from inside it. Saying "People should take me as I am" will only result in not getting that job. Saying "What can I offer this employer?" is likely to get you a lot further.
An open letter by a journalist mother to her daughters put it very well: Yes, people should accept you for what you are; but what message about yourself do you wish to convey to them? (except that she put it a lot better.) Do you want to present as a scruffy no-hoper?
The title of the article was: Decide on your goals, then act to reach them.
Part of acting to reach those goals may involve how you dress.
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Posted Apr 9, 2006 8:32 UTC (Sun) by ronaldcole (guest, #1462)
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I want to ask that journalist mother just what about "scruffy" leads one to conclude said person is a "no-hoper"? I can work with and next to "scruffy". "Stinky" is a whole other story entirely!
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Posted Apr 10, 2006 4:26 UTC (Mon) by Arker (guest, #14205)
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Trying to change the system is your first mistake. You can't change it, inside or out. The attempt makes it possible for it to change you, however.
Don't change the system. Build a new one.
The existing system owns all the building sites
Posted Apr 21, 2006 2:11 UTC (Fri) by xoddam (subscriber, #2322)
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> Don't change the system. Build a new one.
In case you hadn't noticed, the existing system has a remarkable
ability to take possession of any and every resource which might
look useful to it, which of course also means it has acquired a
monopoly on most of the resources (such as land, fuel, water,
labour) which might be useful for building an alternative system.
It's not a 100% monopoly, but it certainly has monopoly power.
You can't build a new system without carving out a space for it
within the sphere of influence of the present one.
Dress for success? Decide on your goals, then act to reach them, by David
A. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 9, 2006 1:02 UTC (Sun) by dwheeler (guest, #1216)
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"If a computer geek turned up at my interview in an expensive suit and tie I would be automatically highly suspicious." Which was the point of the article - figure out who you are talking to, and use clothes as a tool. Suit and tie are sometimes a bad idea.
Dress for success? Decide on your goals, then act to reach them, by David
A. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 10, 2006 7:22 UTC (Mon) by lacostej (guest, #2760)
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> If a computer geek turned up at my interview in an expensive suit
> and tie I would be automatically highly suspicious.
I guess that's just because the suit&tie dress code doesn't fit in your part of the culture/business.
My brother in law works for a big american soda company in La Paz, Bolivia, as a sys-admin and he wears suit&tie. That's just the local dress code. If you have a good job, it has to show.
How about Asia? Any Japanese developers there? How are IT professionals dressed in China? Maybe in those countries showing up without the suit&tie discredits you for the job?
Dress for success? Decide on your goals, then act to reach them, by David
Posted Apr 11, 2006 18:53 UTC (Tue) by AJWM (guest, #15888)
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I probably wouldn't show up for an interview at a university in a suit and tie, since I know the environment (mind, it's been so long since I worked for a uni (and I've been employed at two full time, another part time) I don't recall what I wore to the interview.
I do, though, wear suit'n'tie to interview at a business -- and then promptly shed the jacket and tie with some comment about "oh good, I can take these off" if the interviewers are more casually dressed.
Not that I'd be too thrilled about working in a place that requires everyone to wear a suit, but letting your potential employers know that "here's someone we won't have to hide in a back room when a customer visits" can be a good thing.
IMHO absolute refusal to wear a tie, ever, means you're as much a slave to fashion (although in a reverse sense) as someone who wears one all the time. You're just conforming to a different stereotype.
Dress for success? Decide on your goals, then act to reach them, by David
A. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 9, 2006 11:53 UTC (Sun) by zotz (guest, #26117)
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Can't we just all agree to disagree?
~;-)
Sorry, couldn't resist.
Here is something I posted elsewhere when this dress code think broke a while back:
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'the lax dress code of the open-source community is one of the reasons behind the software's slow uptake in commercial environments.'
Assuming for the sake of argument that this is true, my response would be that if the clean cut, three piece suit set did more of the actual important work on the big projects, then they would be more visible and this would not be such a big problem.
Therefore, it is the clean cut, three piece suit set who are really holding back the uptake of Free Software in commercial environments.
Assuming what we did, what is wrong with the reasoning that followed?
Dress for success? Decide on your goals, then act to reach them, by David
A. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 10, 2006 9:29 UTC (Mon) by janpla (guest, #11093)
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But what is 'well-dressed' then? If you want a job in a bank it may be appropriate if you dress like a pimp (ie. in a suit and tie), but if you want to work as a programmer, perhaps you should choose clothes that give you a little bit of 'street-cred'?
Personally I have never got a job when I went to the interview in a suit. I think it is something about whether you feel comfortable or not. If you sit there in an expensive suit and look unconfortable, it may easily be interpreted as insecurity or 'bad chemistry', I suspect. My best advice would always be: 'Be clean and comfortable'.
Programmer who liked wearing suits
A. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 10, 2006 15:26 UTC (Mon) by edmundo (guest, #616)
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There was a programmer who liked to come to work wearing a suit and tie; he just felt comfortable dressed that way. One day his manager said to him: "Look, we've got some customers visiting us tomorrow. Do you think you could wear jeans and a T-shirt like all the other programmers, just for tomorrow?"
True story, allegedly.
I faced this decision a while ago and ended up in a suit
A. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 10, 2006 18:18 UTC (Mon) by coriordan (guest, #7544)
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When I started getting seriously involved in the campaign against software patents, I had to make the decision. At the time, I didn't even own a suit. I was a sandal-wearing programmer with a beard.
With a job interview, yes, you can turn up in your choice of clothes and you can use that as a test to see if the employer is your type. As a lobbyist, you have to be convincing to all politicians. In fact, you'll find that "your type" of politician is often already on your side, or can be brought over easier, so you end up having to spend the most time trying to convince the politicians you don't like.
With some politicians, if you turn up looking informal - unless you have amazing charisma - you will have wasted your time. There's no time to waste.
I suppose the reasons for sandals, t-shirts, and never shaving is that it's simple, and cash efficient (and money is time). I can still have that simplicity most days of the week, and my suits are all second hand. A recent photo is on my homepage.
I faced this decision a while ago and ended up in a suit
A. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 10, 2006 21:16 UTC (Mon) by dwheeler (guest, #1216)
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Thanks, this is the kind of issue that I had in mind. If you just write code for fun, and don't care what happens afterwards, do whatever you want. But if you're going to government officials (on their turf) to convince them of something, in circumstances where ties or suits are expected, showing up unwashed in ratty jeans is not going to help your cause. It shows a lack of respect for the other person -- the very person you're trying to convince. Likewise, in some academic circles, dressing up in a suit is taken as a sign of lack of respect for them... so DON'T wear a suit there. I think you're more likely to be successful if you're considerate of other people and their cultures, not just your own.
Suit and tie
A. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 10, 2006 21:27 UTC (Mon) by man_ls (subscriber, #15091)
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Horrible tie, man! Blue background with red stripes (or viceversa) is a safe bet. Better have both.
Just (half) joking. We Europeans appreciate your work, Ciaran.
Suit and tie
A. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 10, 2006 21:52 UTC (Mon) by coriordan (guest, #7544)
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I needed a pic to replace the previous one I was using which was taken around 3am (and the previous night's sleep was done on an office floor).
...here's a before pic (I'm on far left), so I'm heading in the right direction at least.
tie or sandals
A. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 12, 2006 22:57 UTC (Wed) by man_ls (subscriber, #15091)
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You look cool either way. For what is worth, I have always hated ties; but if you have to do something, better do it with style.
Dress for success? Decide on your goals, then act to reach them, by David
A. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 10, 2006 21:38 UTC (Mon) by jake (editor, #205)
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and if one's goal is to change the attitudes of small minded people?
it sounds like David would just have us give up ...
i would also note that sometimes the dominant, most capable tool for the job runs on an OS that some of us won't touch under almost any circumstances ... should we ditch our 'hopeless ideals' and capitulate?
i'll stick with my own thinking on this one, thanks ...
jake
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A. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 14, 2006 6:05 UTC (Fri) by lysse (guest, #3190)
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There is value to not fighting all of your battles at once.
Dress for success? Decide on your goals, then act to reach them, by DavidA. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 10, 2006 21:50 UTC (Mon) by s_cargo (guest, #10473)
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I thought I was seeing a correlation, so I counted them up. Based on the current postings on this page, there seems to be a philosophical difference between LWN subscribers and LWN guests. In general, LWN subscribers tend to believe one should "dress appropriately" for the task you want to accomplish (be it getting a job, advocacy, etc.). In general, LWN guests tend to believe in dressing "how I want to" and the world has to accept it. Some posts I wasn't sure where the poster stood, so I counted them as unknown.
I've lumped us into three categories, adapt, rebel, and unknown. I included myself in the guest-adapt category because I think that first you pick what you want to do, then you dress the part (ie. no bank managers in torn t-shirts and no plumbers in tuxes).
Dress for success? Decide on your goals, then act to reach them, by DavidA. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 14, 2006 6:01 UTC (Fri) by lysse (guest, #3190)
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This could tell you only that those who will adapt increase their employment prospects to the point where they can afford a subscription. ;-)
Personally, whilst I used to go to interviews in suits, I very quickly stopped paying attention to dress codes (or stopped working at the place which had such a bizarre approach to rules) - so I guess I'd count as a rebel there. On the other hand, I'm heading off towards a career in law at the moment, and the dress requirements there tend to be highly formal...
Designate some people as "public representative" for projects (good idea by jbb)
Posted Apr 11, 2006 21:46 UTC (Tue) by dwheeler (guest, #1216)
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It will be VERY HARD for anyone to read all the comments on this article on Groklaw, and jbb has a VERY VERY GOOD idea that I don't want to get lost in a sub-sub-sub-thread.
What prompted me to write this original article? Basically, I kept seeing the ineffective way that some developers explain themselves and their projects or issues (e.g., software patents) when they go to "the other guy's turf". Showing up to talk to a government official (on official business and on their turf) in rags, smelling like no showering has ever occurred, and mumbling unconfidently, are going to make it really hard for the official to even SEE their points. Yes, it happens. Which was Quinn's point, and mine too. Yes, the "best solution" should always win, but why should its advocates make it HARDER to see all the solutions objectively? If you have no particular goal, then my recommendation quickly becomes the null set (you're done!). However, many people have an objective that involves changing other people's minds; in the FLOSS world, Raymond recommends thinking about clothing, Perens wears a tie when speaking at government-type settings, and Bradley Kuhn wears a suit when necessary. Rick Moen just sent me an email saying that after talking with Raymond, "my ratty t-shirts and shorts invariably get replaced with polo shirt, slacks, and loafers for all dealings with the business world. I've never regretted that." And obviously both PJ and I agree on this article's point. If you're going out to convince members of other cultures, you need to consider their norms; you don't necessarily need to ADOPT what they do (e.g., use the prince of another country approach), but you better CONSIDER them.
I believe that ALL of us should be prepared to explain ourselves and our views, if necessary. Sometimes each of us needs to do a necessary task even if it's not what we're good at, because no one else can or will. Do not leave all of this to the corporations like Red Hat, etc... because while they do a lot of great stuff, in the end they must represent the company's objectives, which are not always the same as yours. So for those of you who don't normally do this kind of explaining, and suddenly have to, I'm trying to provide useful (if somewhat unpopular) advice. But obviously it'd be best if the task of talking to outsiders was done primarily by people who are actually good at it. I think nearly all of us can agree that some people are better at talking to non-technical people than others.
jbb suggests that "FOSS friendly people who are comfortable in suits [should] volunteer to become corporate reps for the FOSS projects of their choice." I think this is a REALLY REALLY GOOD IDEA, and one I don't want to get lost in the shuffle. I'd call this role "public representative", since it's not always talking to corporations (and some corporations are developers who don't need that). I'd suggest that the project website list the public representative(s) and how to contact him/her/them, if they have such a role. The public reps' job would be to explain the project and its resulting software to potential users of the product (who are NOT software developers). I suspect only larger projects, distributions, or lynchpin programs could justify having such a role... but where they make sense, I think they'd really make sense.
Then the text I wrote would only be focused on the public reps, since they're the only ones "out in public" (for that project). I doubt software tools (like gcc) have a strong need for such a role, because the developers can speak the language of their users directly. But other projects really need someone who is good at translating the project into terms the nontechnical can understand, in ways that they will best understand.
Dress for success? Decide on your goals, then act to reach them, by David
A. Wheeler (Groklaw)
Posted Apr 20, 2006 11:20 UTC (Thu) by alfille (subscriber, #1631)
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As a true hobbiest programmer with an unrelated job (physician) I find some of these protests naive.
People are deeply programmed to respond to appearance as part of group dynamics. Appearing far out of dress for the organization will certainly marginalize you.
If you really want to protest, make a small pertubation. Dress like the rest except a FSF tie or tux lapel pin. That will be far more noticed.